No relationship is perfect; even the most interesting relationships can witness a lack of enthusiasm. This is because nothing stays the same way forever.
In the first phase of every relationship, the partners are inseparable and they love themselves without limit. There is hardly any disagreement as they love and agree to the same thing, suddenly, another phase occurs and they start to realize that they are not perfect. The love does not remain the same and they seek space in their relationship.
But who says this is bad? Who says there isn’t a way to embrace the new phase and keeping the spark alive?
Below are ways to keep the spark alive in your relationship.
- Your partner should be your best friend
Sometimes, you just have to forget that you’re a couple and goof around like friends. Go out with friends, tease one another, have game nights, have parties…just make sure that you enjoy each other’s company.
- The small gestures matters
No one has the time to do big gestures every time. But it is all about the small gestures which are called ‘sparks.’
Sending her cards with lovely notes once in a while is a great gesture. Surprising her at work with her favourite food lunch is sweet. Tucking rose flower into his pocket when he isn’t looking will be well appreciated.
Small gestures that will put a smile on your significant other’s face and make them feel loved and appreciated matters.
- Connect with your partner
Sometimes, you just have to disconnect from the outside world so that you can spend quality time with your partner. You can set rules about some distractions such as work, TV, and phones that can hinder you from having quality time with your partner.
- Be adventurous together
You and your partner should keep the spark alive in your relationship by trying something new. You can go on a voyage and explore a new destination, take a dance class together, etc. This will improve your connection and re-ignite the spark in your relationship.
- Miss each other
One way of keeping the spark alive is by missing each other. As humans, we take some things for granted. When we too much of someone every time, we start to stop missing them.
Travelling with your friends or leaving for a temporary stay in another location will give you the opportunity to miss each other.
- Have a date night
No matter how busy you are, create time to go for a date and enjoy each other’s company!
These will keep the spark alive in your relationship and increase the love you have for each other!