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Things To Withhold From Your Friends in Your Relationship

Not everytime Talk about your partner, sometimes, be Quiet.

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Dearly beloved, I know you want to gist your friends all that is going on with your Relationship but you know that it will work better when it’s not exposed to the whole world. Some things are better left unsaid.

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  1. INTIMATE DETAILS: If you guys are getting down in the bedroom, it should stay in the bedroom. You should NEVER, let out your intimacy details to your friends. It should not be a conversation for small chops. Only you can make your friends respect your partner and the intimate details should be kept from even the closest of friends.
  2. FIGHTS: I know we all want to talk to someone when we are down and sad. But it’s probably a bad idea to tell your friends about your fights because you two will be fine in a few days but your friends will not forget the fights and remind you about it every now and then. Couples fight, it’s normal, keep it between the two of you.
  3. FINANCIAL ISSUES: This is especially for women, If your partner is going through some money issues, don’t go telling your friends and family about it. Whatever it is, talk it out with your partner and not the rest of the world.
  4. PERSONAL ISSUES: Please do not discuss your partner’s personal life issues with your friends. If something bad happens in your partner’s family, do not go blabbing about it because they trusted you with that Information. If they find out you told others about them, do you think they will ever trust you again?
  5. PAST AFFAIRS OR RELATIONSHIPS: It is not your right to discuss your partner’s past relationships with your friends, it will only lead to ridicule and negativity. Whatever they told you, they told you in confidence and they knew believed it will only stay with you.
  6. COMPLAINING: Every relationship has its ups and downs so when the down comes, don’t go complaining to your friends. If you do this often, your friends will start advising you to leave the person because they see how sad and miserable you are with them. Whatever problems you’re facing, talk to your partner about them and don’t go complaining to your friends.
  7. COMPARING: Please do not compare your partner to others and do not even do that in front of our friends. If your ex was so much better, why are you not together?  Do not disrespect your partner by comparing with anyone.

Build a healthy relationship by refraining from speaking about your partner at every turn. They deserve some respect, give it to them.


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