If you have a new guy in your life and are in the early stages of courtship, chances are good you will be texting him and he will be texting you. Flirty texting is fun, but if you aren’t careful, you can unknowingly put a huge damper on his attraction.
If he is pulling away from you, one of the reasons might be because you are unknowingly killing his attraction for you. Many women are unaware how they do it. They just get more and more antsy as they hear from the guy they like less and less until he totally disappears into thin air (find out other reasons why he is pulling away).
Here’s useful tips on how to be sexy, fun and flirty to a guy through texting:
Tip #1: Let the guy chase you by letting him text you first
We know it’s very tempting to just fire away a text message -what’s the harm, right? You’re just being friendly- but it’s the best piece of advice we can give you if you really want to attract a guy and not chase him away.
Why? Because guys are wired to do one primary thing when they meet a girl they are attracted to – and that one thing is to chase them.
If you send that cute guy the first text, you’re going to mess around with his natural instincts. You will become the “chaser” and that will make you less attractive in his mind. You will turn him off and chase him away. Here are more tips on calling and texting guys without making them think you are too needy and available.
Tip #2: Text him only as often as he texts you or less. Leave him with wanting more
Most girls make the mistake of texting a guy way too much. That’s a big turn off.
Tip #3: When you do get a text from that hunk, keep your texts short
Girls are naturally more talkative than guys. Texting is not for long conversations, just short messages you can use to build attraction. Leave the conversations for the phone and face to face time. You don’t want a virtual relationship do you?
READ ALSO: 10 Things to Know Before Asking Her Out
Tip #4: Keep your texts fun and flirty. Yes, you must FLIRT, FLIRT AND FLIRT SOME MORE!
Keep your texts fun and flirty, not dirty. Don’t be overly sexual because you’ll position yourself as a booty call.
Tip #5: End the text convo first
When you are into texting back and forth and you suddenly text: “Hey i must go. Text me later.” You have left a guy totally off balance.
He might be thinking, “Was she upset with me? Did another hot guy approach her? When does she want me to text her?” You become totally in control and the guy is going to have to step it up a bit to keep your attention. You are a challenge to him and he loves it!
Use these 5 texting tips effectively and you will have more guys than you know what to do with chasing you and wanting to take you out on sexy and fun dates.
And to end this article, we’d like to bring to your attention that even though many women have to apply self-restraint when it comes to texting, the irony is you can actually attract him back using text messages too. Isn’t it neat?
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