The Art of Self-dating and 6 best ways to try it out yourself

Single people can also go on dates with themselves. It is called Self Dating.

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The art of dating yourself is very simple: it means doing something fun, relaxing, thought-provoking, creative, active and maybe a little crazy for you. ALL FOR YOU. Taking yourself out on a date is what we are talking about here.

Dating yourself means you can try new things without asking permission, not compromising and showing yourself the love you truly deserve.

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Without plenty of stories, here are ways to date yourself.

  • BOOKS OR  BOOKSTORE AND YOUR FAVORITE DRINK: For those who consider themselves bookworms, when was the last time you had some good reading time? First, find a library or download a book that has been on your to-read list and then take yourself to a coffee shop or grab a drink and start turning those pages. Stay for as long as you can afford to.
  • SPA DAY: This date should not take much convincing if the plan is to have the proper spa experience. Have a look in your area to see if you can find spas. If not, see a massage therapist or have a more affordable spa day at home.
  • TRY A NEW ACTIVITY: We all have things in our mind or on our bucket list that we want to try. Do it for yourself to grow your self-esteem, to laugh, have fun and spend time with great people like you.
  • TAKE YOURSELF TO LUNCH: I do not mean that hurried meal you grab in between work hours or that eat while typing furiously at your laptop. I am saying have the kind of lunch where once you’ve eaten, you can have a nap, enjoy a book or listen to music.
  • DINNER & WINE: Who says you can’t make yourself a gorgeous dinner along with a glass of wine or your favorite drink? If you know there is a night that you can arrange to be home alone, then treat yourself to a dish that only you love. If you do not want to go through the stress of cooking, you can have your food delivered and then have your meal with a little Netflix.
  • TAKE YOURSELF TO THE MOVIES: If you haven’t done this before, don’t be shy about going to the movies alone. If you have done the movies on your own and love it – then take the time you need and go more often. It’s a fun way to escape the hustle and bustle of every day and just enjoy!


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