You’re friend, right? But you have this nagging feeling in your gut that he is starting to treat you more than a guy friend ought to.
Yes, this can be quite a confusing stage in a friendship when there are mixed signals and inhibitions and signs that you can’t put a finger on. If your friend wants more in your relationship, then he just might exhibit these signals:
He wants to get in touch with you almost all of the time
He might have something to say, or maybe not. But he makes sure he gets in touch with you several times a day – maybe to say hi, or to ask a silly question that he already asked yesterday, or to forward a joke he found on the internet. We don see men wey go borrow credit for hin phone take dey call her lady friend and telling her credit is not his problem. No be Naija? we dey do anything to get wetin we want.
He’ll do practically anything to please you
There is no grocery too far or a restaurant too crowded for him to get you what you need or want. He might grunt or show some resistance, but he cannot say no. He even takes the initiative to do things that he knows would please you, like get the new CD of your favorite band. Na Naija we go see a man buying set of panties for her lady friend and hin boxers don tear finish.
He acts differently when you’re with other guys
Na naija guy dey jealous pass. Den go even dey jealous seing you with you your brothers.
No be Naija men? Abeggi all of a sudden, he will be grumpy and sarcastic just because he passed you down the hall while you were talking to that guy. Or he turns a cold shoulder just because you told him that you got roses from a friend of a friend.
He is interested in your personal affairs
While your other male friends couldn’t care less what your family is doing this Christmas, your guy friend asks you if Aunt Linda arrived on schedule, and if the upside-down cake you promised to bake for little David turned out alright.
He won’t talk about his love life
He’s interested to know how you feel about everything and everyone, but he refuses to divulge who he’s interested in. He might say there’s someone, but he won’t tell you who.
He’s becoming more physical
He’s somehow stepping into your personal space – he may try to get that leaf off your hair instead of just gesturing to you that it’s there, which is what regular male friends do. Or he may be a bit more gentlemanly in his actions.
He’s acting strange
Right. Because he’s probably as confused about his feelings as you are. No matter how you feel towards him, you need to continue being his friend and support him through this difficult time.
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