Certain behaviours allow for you to be tagged a certain way and this is true even for confident people. The things you do on a daily basis will allow us to know which category of people you solidly fit into.
This post is for people who want to know what confident behaviours are and ho they can apply them.
Are you ready?
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- Avoiding negative people: Negative people literally have no positive vibes and to be called a confident person means that the vibes around you have to be the positive ones. You cannot keep hanging with No-sayers and expect to live a Yes life.
- Use positive language: This is just the continuation of the above. Using positive language shows us your confidence in whatever you are talking about or selling to us.
- Use direct eye contact: I know as Africans, we’ve been thought that looking directly in an Adult eye is a sign of disrespect which in turn allows most people to be uneasy when holding a gaze. Direct eye contact portrays confidence as opposed to shifty eyes which says you are shy or timid.
- Remembering peoples names: Confident people make it a point of duty to remember the names of others. It shows that you keep record and are not forgetful
- Making the best first impression: Highly confident people always put their best foot forward in whatever they do. So their first impression is most likely going to be their best because they are aware that you cannot make a first impression twice.
- Balancing work and life: Confident people know that balance is the key to everything and they find a way to make that possible whether in their work, family or relationship.
- Arrive on time: Confident people are not late. They take their time very seriously and do everything within their power to be on-time. In the event that they will be late, they let you know in advance.
- Take up a hobby: Confident people are not only about work and serious stuff. They find ways or avenues to wind down when the day is over. They know that all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.
- Never lazy: One important behaviour of a confident person is hard work. They are not lazy and never make excuses as regards what needs to be done.
- Offer solutions, not more problems: Confident people will always find a way to bring solutions to the table. They usually are not interested in listening to problems that have no preferred solutions.
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