So you’re marriage is failing? Or is your marriage not what it used to be. Well it’s time to do something about it, starting from right now. You need to decide what you truly want.
Do you want this marriage to work more than anything else, I certainly hope so! Do you want to reignite the spark between you and your spouse, again I certainly hope so! If you answer yes to both these above questions, then you obviously love your spouse, and want the marriage to work more than anything else in the world.
So it’s up to you to make it work, no one else. And obviously I can’t help your partner, but what I can do is teach you how to be a better partner, teach you how to react in certain situations. You have the power to change your marriage, starting from today!
In most cases marriage fail, and are generally unhappy because the couple don’t spent time together and there is a lack of communication. Now this could be for a number of reasons, but in my experience I find that it’s because on side of the couple or both are wrapped up in their careers. They wake up in the morning, sort their kids out, take them to school, go to work, pick their kids up, cook dinner for the family, go to bed and this happens every single day.
If you want your marriage to work you have to cut out the crap. You must dedicate one night a week at least for you and your spouse to spend some quality time together. It doesn’t really matter what you do, go for a drink in a nice bar, see a movie in the cinema, or just sit down and talk, make jokes, enjoy each others company!
Start changing your marriage today, you have the power to do so!
Are you feeling bitter that your marriage seems to have crashed and burned? Does this bitterness come into play in your relationship with your spouse? Do you feel that he or she is also taking out bitterness on you? Bitterness is a common feeling as couples become disillusioned with their erstwhile storybook marriages and have to learn to deal with the facts of everyday life, and yet bitterness is something that is going to harm your marriage and make it impossible to save.
It’s a cancerous emotion that will drive you farther apart and create a vicious circle of bad feelings. If you and your spouse are serious about trying to save your marriage, then you both need to work at stamping out bitterness in your lives.
On the other hand if you have been unfaithful just because that is who you are, but you still want to stop your divorce, then you are going to have to work even harder. You are going to have to prove that you are totally trustworthy. Couples counseling will also work in this situation but the work is going to be on your part. After all, your spouse didn’t do anything – you did!
If you have been unfaithful just because that’s” who you are” …then face up to reality and be honest with your spouse. Tell them that is who you think you are. But, let’s be real…you weren’t born that way. Now you must find out why you cheat and then work to change that in yourself.
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