Odunayo Bolarinwa
A husband who often flirts with other women can be a source of stress for any wife. There are men out there who just possess this habit of impressing every attractive woman they meet even though it’s only the first time they’ve actually seen each other.
There are even others fond of referring to other women, new acquaintance or friends, as hon, love or sweetie. And still, there are men who are so generous with words that they can easily say I love you to other ladies other than their wives even though it’s said in jest.
So if you’re a wife, you can get tired and irritated with this kind of attitude. You can often question why your husband can easily put his arms around another woman or call another lady with pet names and they’re not even you. It somehow hits you and makes you feel a little guilty that you may be lacking something the reason why your hubby may not be that showy to you as he is with other women.
What are you to do then to tame your partner? First, acknowledge your feelings. Do a self-assessment to find out if you’re feeling neglected and if a great deal of his affection is being shared with others. Or it may be that your husband is just the open and flirty type but is not actually serious with those gestures and words.
He may be the kind of guy who only wants to make a good impression on others. You can also ask yourself if his actions really make you insecure.
What exactly do i need to do to make my spouse love me once again? ask yourself if it is possible to build massive attraction in my spouse?
Discussing this issue with your husband is a good start as well. Your partner may not be aware at all that his gestures are annoying you so it may be good idea to let him know how you feel about his actions.
Avoid accusing your spouse about trying to woo other women but be honest when you talk to him about your hurt feelings every time you see him in a sweet talk with another woman. It’s vital that he knows he should also be more sensitive to your needs and feelings.
Another important but difficult step is to understand your spouse. After you’ve discussed the issue and you find there’s nothing serious to how he acts and refers to other women, then a little understanding won’t hurt. Mutual understanding is crucial in any marriage because without this, you will find yourselves often in conflict with one another.
On your part as the wife, you also need to express your love more to your hubby. Show it in a variety of ways at home from the small things to the big surprises. Eventually when you’re consistent in this aspect, you’ll find yourself being appreciated by your husband.
And don’t forget to make yourself look good all the time. Men want their wives to be in their best even when just at home so take the time to beautify yourself without having to spend much. Get a new haircut, manicure or pedicure and spray yourself with great scents as often as you can. In this way, your hubby will be attracted to only you, his wife.
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