Here are things you should never tell a woman going through a heartbreak

Not everyone will marry their first, second or even third love because not every relationship will lead to the altar or to happily ever after. Some people will have to kiss some frogs before meeting prince charming and that is perfectly okay.

That being said, what the above also means is that there will be heartbreaks along the way, some more painful than the others. It is imperative that women know how to handle a breakup, whichever side of the extreme you might be on and also know how to comfort those who might go through a breakup because we sometimes use the wrong words hat make them feel worse.

He wasn’t meant for you: This is often said to make the heartbroken person feel better but it’s not the right thing to say seeing as time, energy and resources were invested in the relationship. Most times, the heartbroken person would later realize that the ex wasn’t meant for them, but you’re not the one to tell them that.
You will meet someone better: Of course, they will meet someone else who will treat them better but at the moment, let them mourn what they have lost, allow them to deal with the pain of letting go of someone they’ve shared intimate moments with, who they also thought they’ll be doing life together. Allow them.
Stop crying over him because he’s happy wherever he is, maybe with his new girlfriend: Hello Sister, even if he is with his new girlfriend, they do not need to know about it or be told that it might be the reason for the initial break up. Leave them to cry, to relieve tension and the pain that a breakup brings. Let them cry out their heart which is better than bottling up their feelings.
Stop talking about him: The easiest thing you can do is not to be in the vicinity if you don’t want to hear about the person that they spent a major chunk of their emotions on. If a heartbroken person is talking about their ex and the times they shared together, it may be the only way they know how to deal with the pain.
We warned you about him: Yes, it happens that we warn our friends about a relationship, but because they are in love, they don’t listen or even see the signs that mean the relationship is heading for the rocks. When the relationship ends, is not the time to prove that you were right and you have the gift of prophecy. They already know, whether you mention it or not, they are reminded so it is best not to rub it in.