Reterdeen Staff
Cheating partners hiding in the dark are now be caught now and then, but what next after that heart-shattering discovery? What are the things should you do and what are the things you shouldn’t you. For every cheating partner, there is that revealing day, and when one discovers they are being cheated one, the onus of staying or ending the relationship lies on them. Whatever option you choose, here are five things you should never do when you catch your partner cheating:
Do not revenge
You may overlook a cheating partner, and out love decide to give them another chance. If you do so, do not attempt to pay them back by secretly cheating on them. Revenge will make you look immature, and it only takes a matter of time too before you will get caught.
Do not engage in violence
Getting cheated on doesn’t give you the right to start throwing punches at your partner. If you don’t want to get into trouble with the law avoid any form or violence or else you will see your self sobbing behind bars. Do not give yourself a bad name because of a cheating partner. Although it is painful, subdue your anger. Seek proper counseling from a relationship coach or someone close to you regarding the issue at hand. Domestic violence is a serious offense, and it’s highly frowned at. If you resort to violence, you will end up regretting your actions.
Do not make a scene.
Yelling or fighting in a public place is embarrassing. A cheating partner does not worth you embarrassing yourself. Take a deep breath and walk out of the scene of discovery don’t frown don’t cry keep a straight face and plan your next move. There are many fishes in the sea.
Do not use abusive words.
Although a cheating partner doesn’t deserve pity, do not resort in using abusive words on them. Be matured and control your emotions, control your tongue. Using insulting words on them in a public or private place will make you look ill-manned and childish.
Do not Post their nudes.
In this age of social media, it is now a norm for couples to leak the nudes of their partner after being cheated on. Not only is this unlawful but a very immature thing to do. Posting of someones nude without their consent can cost you some jail time. Be wise and brush it off. If you are having a hard time dealing with it, it is best you go for counseling to get you back on the right track.
Catching your partner cheating can be a very terrible experience and sometimes causes trauma. If you are experiencing this at the moment, do not feel bad, he/she does not deserve someone as loyal as you. Let go of him or her, find a hobby, improve yourself by reading books and engaging in meaningful activities, meet with new people, go shopping, catch some funny movies and laugh more.
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