No secret affair is a walk in the park for the person on the receiving end. It breaks something on the inside of you when you acknowledge that you were not enough for one person. The most common emotions are rage, anger, shock and humiliation(Not necessarily in this order) There is the feeling of betrayal riding on the backs of broken trust.
If you are in a place where you are not sure if your partner is cheating but you suspect, technology can help you investigate. We are aware that our devices have changed the way we interact, including philandering. Your partner’s digital footprint can help confirm or throw away your worst fears.
READ ALSO: Five things you should never do if you catch a cheating partner.
Here are five signs your partner might be cheating.
- Suddenly becomes a phone hoarder: Until recently, your partner did not think twice about their device and did not mind if it was left lying around but now they have an emotional attachment to the phone seeing as they are constantly sending messages on it and keeping it close or on them at all times. This is a common red flag.
- Password changes from time to time: You used to know the password but suddenly you do not anymore. The last time, you had a fight about it, it was grudgingly shown to you but now that you have tried to put that in, it keeps giving you the error message. You should be vigilant beloved.
- A new sim card and phone: I know that it is acceptable to have 3 or more sims in this region and probably 2 phones but if a new phone with its own brand new sim pops up on the scene for no apparent reason, then you should perk up. The worse of cheaters put a new sim in a device you know already and they can use the same device and then switch sims without anyone realizing.
- Secret cloud accounts: Clever cheaters may store data is in the cloud, where it’s private, accessible and easy to share with a secret lover. It has become a commonplace to discreetly keep photos, videos etc
- Chrome seems to be the only browser they have open: Every time you stumble on your partner working via their tablet or laptop, they seem to always be on the same page or on a blank chrome page. The answer you are looking for is in the Incognito Mode. Yup. That mode has been aiding cheating since it was launched.
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