Love is indeed a weird feeling that can happen at any point in time and to anybody. It happens unexpectedly and at a moment you least expect. A common strange way is by falling for sister or brother’s best friend.
This can be very disastrous especially if your brother is very possessive. What should you be aware of when you’re involved with your brother’s best friend?
- Hiding it will make you lose it all
The biggest mistake you’ll be making is by hiding it from your brother. The relationship will likely to crumble if your brother finds out on his own. Also, your brother-sister relationship will be ruined.
- Breaking the sibling rule
Having a relationship with your brother’s best friend means that you’re breaking the siblings rule. It is like you’re getting yourself into a drama that you’re not aware of. It is a huge dilemma you’re likely to face.
- You’ll need to have his blessings first
Before accepting to go into a relationship with his best friend, you’ll need his blessings first. This might probably the most conversation you’ll have with him, but it is something worth doing.
- You probably have all the tiny details of his life
You can know all about his life without making effort to do a proper background check on him. This is all thanks to your brother. This is because he knows every single detail about his best friend; likes and dislikes, future ambition, bad breakups, etc. This is a weapon that will make your relationship prosper.
- You might be putting a friendship on the line
Should anything go wrong between you and your brother’s best friend, you’re actually putting a friendship on the line. This is because you’ve automatically gotten your brother to be involved in the relationship.
- No worries about the family introduction phase
The toughest phase of your relationship is your partner meeting the family. But when you’re involved with your brother’s best friend, everything is settled. This is because you do not have he must have become a part of the family; visited, had dinner and even slept in your house a countless number of times.
- You’ll probably know that it is serious
Your brother’s best friend won’t put the relationship on the line for a fling. Being involved with his best friend is an indication that he is really interested in you. This shows that the relationship will be a serious one.
- You can ask your brother for advice
To be certain that we’re on the right path, we all want to have an insight from those close to us. Sometimes when we ask our friends, we’re scared that we might not get the best of advice from them. But your brother will always be there to give you the most honest opinion. He will judge the relationship and tell you if going into such a relationship will be prosperous or not.
A relationship with your brother’s best friend can be the best or worst thing that can ever happen to you. Ensure that you act on your new relationship and remember that he is your brother’s best friend!