Being and showing commitment in a relationship is one of the responsibilities of the parties involved. Going out your way to make your partner happy, compromising and even agreeing to disagree all go a long way to show we are devoted to having the best experiences in our relationships.
Here are 5 tips to showing commitment in a relationship:
Schedule Time For Them
Spending quality time together is crucial. This time can be with friends, dinning out, attending a sporting event, or cuddling together while watching a favorite movie. The activity is not what is important but the fact that you are together, doing something that you both enjoy. People have extremely busy schedules and between work, family, and everything else going on, finding time for your partner can be difficult. Just as you would schedule a meeting on your calendar, show some courtesy in the relationship by scheduling time with each other. Once the plan is in place, no backing out unless you have some life and death emergency.
Make Proper Communication
When couples are having problems in a relationship, communication is the first thing to stop. It is often easier to just be quiet than to get mad. This will require that both individuals let down their guard and pretty much throw caution to the wind. Healing in the relationship cannot start until you talk. Make an agreement that you will talk about anything and everything and that you will listen, really listen. That does not mean that you will agree with everything, which is pretty fine. However, if you do not agree, do not yell, rather, the two of you need to calmly discuss the issue and together, work out a solution. This is hard work but within a very short time, you will both feel much better, individually and as a couple.
Make Him Feel Good
For the man in your life, here are some recommendations for making him feel special:
- Flirt with him in public places
- Lavish him with compliments
- Tell him how sexy he is
- Act jealous once in a while, even if you are not
- Remind him he is a wonderful partner, husband, boyfriend, whatever applies
- Tell him how handsome you find him
Make Her Feel Special
Just like men, women love feeling good about themselves. These recommendations might help.
- Tell her how beautiful she is
- Compliment on her many specific skills
- Tell her how much she means to you
- Let her know that she is your best friend
- Show affections to her in front of family and friends
- Let her know that you find her very sexy
The Past is The Past
Every person on the face of the Earth has some kind of history, or “baggage”, although at varying levels. Do not walk into a relationship with your arms loaded with baggage. Even though there are things from the past that are hurtful, and even damaging, learn from those things and come out a better and stronger person. This allows you to step into a new relationship with better knowledge of what not to do. Leave the baggage from the past alone, focus on today, and look forward to tomorrow.
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